R. May, the American psychologist, described the myth as an attempt to make sense of a world devoid of meaning (1991). Of all the myths, romantic love appears to be the most mysterious and fascinating, able to relieve anxieties and difficulties of human existence. Several authors, including Italian, describing the search of romantic and passionate as the reflection of a culture, the West, has long centered on the values \u200b\u200bof productivity economic, competition between individuals and individualism at the expense of cooperation and sharing between the group and the group. And, to the detriment of ethical and spiritual values \u200b\u200bof life. Romantic love, or rather romantic love becomes the ideal form of idealization in which it can escape to comfort the hearts and minds of human beings, just because it was deprived of its essence better. A dream, a hope and expectation that belongs to many men and women. No coincidence that the chat lines are full of such dreams, hopes and expectations. There is no age limit for such research as it is sincere or playful. It seeks a beautiful woman, young, sometimes even twenty or thirty years compared to him. Maybe a bit 'timid and without many pretensions. Looking for a man as beautiful, sometimes rich, as long dream and knows how to give face enthusiasm and happiness. The fruit of a culture that teaches and strengthens the best appearance, who knows how to produce more, who is better looking, who is better. It is not difficult to read between the lines of certain statements by the open feeling of profound loneliness of the person and, perhaps, its illusory hope of changing lives through research of a perfect, perfect, able to satisfy all the needs of love. I am reminded of an old movie of Toto. The protagonist, Toto, now an adult and father, decided to take the license of the fifth grade. During His examination shows the Board is fully unprepared. He ignores the difference between an electric battery and a pot, does not know the poem "Bove", or those who have made it confuses Caprera Capri until he concedes he can not pass the exam. He has, however, a great wisdom, the typical adult who has lived and lives his life. In some respects, the story recalls the everyday life of our time where the form or outward appearance seem to prevail on the values \u200b\u200bof the content. The quality of love should belong more to the heart and mind, the soul rather than to rationality. The Greek philosophers distinguished three basic forms of love: Eros, Filia, Agape. That is the meaning of love, the love of the soul, the love of the Spirit. In our culture, love is almost always identified the sensory pleasures. The search for love seems to pass, first for the external features. The media provide us with continual examples and models of this form of love. To be loved you must first be beautiful and attractive, the player who is more attractive and more appealing. A false interpretation fails, however, to make its influence, especially among young people. Night-clubs and nightclubs offer us a glimpse, often depressing reality of this. Where to please another one forces the body to wear dresses super-stretch, high heels up to twenty to thirty centimeters, you undergo a physical stress for muscles to show, when surgery to correct defects and imperfections. And all this does not help to feel more loved and happy. Just think of the abuse of alcohol and drugs. The expression of a culture-oriented values \u200b\u200band narcissistic void that can not produce extra sense of emptiness and narcissism. The capacity to love is an attitude of human nature, its expression should be facilitated rather than be hindered. The love between two people, romantic love, can grow to the extent that the two partners agree to get into the game looking for, each for himself, to recognize and accept their limitations and imperfections, and lovingly other. When you look in themselves and in the perfection is hard to cultivate a sincere relationship of love. You may look at themselves and each other as you look at an object: "I do not go well because I'm not blonde," if he learned to be more diplomatic I would love him more. " It 's like saying "if this vessel was green instead of yellow blends in better with the decor of the room."
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